Aries Venus can be generous and passionate but can view their loved ones through a self-focused lens, they might not see the other’s needs or try to impose their own identity on another. Instead of facing frustration or disappointment over another, they need to watch this tendency.
Taurus Venus does have a possessive trait in love. This is based in their own security and esteem. Those with heavy Fire/air charts might struggle to understand and talk about this side of them due to its almost unfamiliar feel and nature to the individual.
A Gemini Venus truly needs stimulation and variety. When it comes down to it, it isn’t fair for them to demand a partner to be more than one person, more than who they are.
Cancer Venus has a trait of emotional control. Even if their intentions are good this position needs to be aware that a lot of their anger or pain towards someone might be due to their lack of control over them. This can be rooted in their view and want of security and reassurance.
Leo Venus can get caught up in the ego side of love. This doesn’t always mean their own ego. They attend more to their lover’s prideful or shallow needs, they view the status of things through a filter of demands, ambitions, and recognition.
An internal struggle for Virgo Venus is the fulfillment and maybe even thrill of taking care of another, healing them, or saving them. This can be a kind thing and caring is also a trait for them in love but it can turn into a relationship based off pity or self-righteousness.
Libra Venus could keep others at arms length with shallow excuses or even in turn a fear of shallow love and interest. There is a cautious nature hidden in vagueness or detachment.
Scorpio Venus can hold many unfair emotional biases and baggage when entering a new relationship or even towards loved ones who have tried to make amends, change, or grow. Letting go, flexibility, and forgiveness are challenges.
Sagittarius Venus can concentrate too much on the big picture of a relationship and forget the details or even the dirt and challenges of one.
Capricorn Venus can become restrictive in their view of love or in relationships. This can keep them back from many different types of bonds and intimacy.
Aquarius Venus can fall into a preoccupied mindset or behavior in relations. This isn’t necessarily boredom or unfaithfulness, this comes from their strong mental approach to bonds. They pay attention to those they make a mental bond with, even if temporary.
Pisces Venus can be unclear and lack boundaries. They might have love and devotion in their heart but should try to be aware of the messages they are sending, how they respect another’s boundaries and self, and express what they themselves are expecting or want.